Asking about violence and abuse
Many health professionals feel overwhelmed and uncomfortable when faced with the prospect of asking a question about domestic abuse. It is important to ask direct questions such as:
- Are you afraid of your partner?
- Does your partner behave in ways that frighten you sometimes?
- Is there a history of domestic abuse?
- Have you ever been pushed or shoved?
- Does your partner sometimes yell so much that it frightens you or the children?
Another approach could be something like this:
- Frequently women with these symptoms are having difficulties in their relationship. Are you sometimes frightened of your partner?
- Many women who experience anxiety/depression talk to me about violence and abuse in their relationship. Is anything like this happening for you?
Don't be put off if a woman tells you she hasn't been hit, or it only happened once. Physical abuse is only one tactic of abuse. explain that hitting, punching and shoving are only one of the tactics of abuse. Other tactics such as put downs, yelling, threatening behaviour, unreasonable jealousy, threatening to report you to welfare, denying you access to money or the car, or any behaviour that attempts to create fear or control your life is also a tactic of domestic abuse.
Don't be concerned if a woman denies the abuse. Maybe she'll feel safe enough to talk to you about it on her next visit. Always ask when you are alone with your patient. Never ask in front of a partner
Other relevant statistics
- In Australia violence occurs between one in three and one in ten families
- One in five patients at the Royal Brisbane Hospital emergency department were victims of domestic violence (Roberts GL et al 1993 'Domestic Violence & Health Professionals')
- In 20% of women who have experienced domestic abuse, the violence occurred for the first time during pregnancy. (Australian Bureau of Statistics ëWomen's Safety Australia' 1996)
- 38% of women had experienced one or more than one incident of violence since the age of 15 years. (Australian Bureau of Statistics ëWomen's Safety Australia' 1996)
- 19% of women aged 18-24 has experienced an incident of violence in the previous 12 month period. (Australian Bureau of Statistics ëWomen's Safety Australia' 1996)
- Up to 80% of homicides in Australia take place between those familiar to each other (Wallace, A Homicide: The Social Reality. NSW Bureau of Crime Statistics and Research 1986)
- In 95%-98% of reported cases the perpetrators are men and the victims are women (NSW Bureau of Crime Statistics and Research 1984-1987)
- Closer to home, domestic abuse constitutes a significant percentage of operational police work in the Northern Region local command.
Samiro Douglas is the Domestic Violence Coordinator at the Northern Rivers Area Health Service.
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